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Oubaitori: Don't compete; don't compare.

"Comparison is the thief of joy." (Theodore Roosevelt)

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Annette Payne
Mar 01, 2025
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Oubaitori (oh-buy-toe-ree) is a Japanese principle that holds profound wisdom. It reminds us not to judge ourselves by someone else's path, but to embrace our own beauty and unique way of being.

What is Oubaitori?

This concept is composed of four kanji characters, each representing a different tree. These trees stand side by side to bloom in spring - but …

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